Eckhart Tolle says When you complain, you make yourself a victim.Leave the situation, change the situation, or accept it. All else is madness...So friends do try this! For the next 24 hours, aim to not make a single complaint. That’s right. No complaining for 24 hours.Yes, know what you might be saying, that easy. I don’t complain as it is. Well,you will be surprised like moi if u tried to do it with complete honesty,well I did it the other day and was surprised at how I who says constantly ‘that i am a person who doesn’t complain much’ actually complains. It starts of as the day starts till the day ends... The little things such as, ‘I’m tired‘, or ‘I don’t want to go to work’ or ‘I’m so tired of this rain!’. Complaints.Negative thoughts when things are mot going on as you want them to,well they are in No way beneficial in creating any kind of positive momentum for self or anyone around us.
True Happiness seeks us only when we stop complaining about the troubles we have and offer Gratitude for all the troubles we don't have....
Happiness comes a lot easier when you stop complaining about your problems and you start focusing on the ways to deal with the issues which are becoming a problem, complaining does nothing to fix your problems.If your focus is on all the negative in your life you will be so preoccupied with it that you will miss on all of the blessings around you Regardless of what you are facing, choosing to be negative and verbalize your frustrations isn’t going to help your situation.Instead of complaining about what is wrong with our life;we should thank God for what is right with our life,w e just need to have a correct perspective thats all.I read somewhere that In many shamanic societies, if you came to a medicine person complaining of being disheartened, dispirited, or depressed, they would ask one of four questions. When did you stop dancing? When did you stop singing? When did you stop being enchanted by stories? When did you stop finding comfort in the sweet territory of silence?when i read this i was like...hey Deepika...when did you start to need the complaint box....why was i piling up so much stuff like a backpack and looking for constant need to release the backpack into a complaint box....so i just said to moiself..Deepika girl,Stop complaining and pull yourself together.
Now if i ever find moiself the victim of other people's bitterness, smallness or insecurities,I disassociate from them,
...but dont reach a situation where i have to fight an urge to be complaining about their behaviour and how they wronged moi.I stopped being the victim,and did which was best for moi growth as a individual as a beautiful soul.life became much much simple,i lost a lot of people from moi life in this process,but this made moi a very very strong individual who started unwrapping herself from the wraps of complaining mode.
So friends...Stop holding on to what hurts and start making room for what feels good.Get the security blanket of victimized self off your body and soul ,
So you find yourself thinking or saying a negative comment about something or someone, stop and force yourself always to something positive about that person or situation. on to what hurts you in that situation or person,and start making room for what feels good,inside out.
Hope you enjoyed our little conversation today.Thank you to you whosoever reads it...thank you for being a part of moi insignificant journey....your being here makes it significantly significant forr this Ordinary soul..
Gratitude...love...light... happiness to you...
Deepika.dk ~*~
The Gypssysoul
